Evaluation should include qualities such as
- values, beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors
- educational, social, economic, and cultural backgrounds
- future goals as they pertain to education, career, and parenting.
Process/Skill Questions:
Thinking
- What do you consider to be the most important qualities in a partner?
- Why is it important to identify what values, beliefs, or ethical standards are most important to you when choosing a partner?
- What are some guidelines that one should use to ensure a healthy relationship?
- What might be the outcome of entering into a relationship that is considered unhealthy?
Communication
- What are some consequences of not communicating your future goals, values, and standards when developing a relationship?
- What communication skills are especially important in developing and maintaining a healthy relationship?
Leadership
- What leadership skills can help people evaluate factors related to choosing a partner?
- How can leadership skills help people set goals related to choosing a partner and forming a family?
Management
- What may happen if you form a relationship with a person who has different values, beliefs, or standards?
- Why is it important to discuss career goals with a potential life partner?