Assessment should include
- the degree of relative independence from parents
- emotional and intellectual maturity
- economic independence
- desire to commit to a long-term relationship with another person
- desire to accept responsibilities associated with marriage and family life.
Process/Skill Questions:
Thinking
- What factors influence a decision to form one’s own family?
- What criteria should be used to weigh the importance of each of these factors?
- What is the relationship between educational and career goals versus marriage and family life?
Communication
- What questions should be asked to determine readiness for marriage and family life?
- What is the role of communication in making decisions regarding marriage and family life?
Leadership
- What ethical standards will guide you in considering your readiness for marriage and family life?
- What might be the consequences of unrealistic expectations regarding marriage and family life?
- What leadership abilities are needed in order to make responsible decisions regarding marriage and family life?
Management
- What are some favorable and unfavorable factors to consider in predicting marital happiness?
- What resources are available to help evaluate personal factors regarding readiness for marriage and family life?
- What management skills can help you make good decisions?